Why Listening Is the New Sexy Most people think intimacy means more sex toys, wild nights, or elaborate role play. And sure — those things can be fun. But they’re not the core. Real intimacy starts with being seen.  When you take the time to genuinely listen to your partner — no phone, no TV, no half-distracted “uh-huh” responses — you send a powerful message: You matter to me. And when someone feels seen, that’s when desire starts to unlock naturally. Because desire doesn’t thrive in...

Why Your Relationship Deserves Its Own Goals Every January, we set goals to get healthier, organize the house, or finally take that dream trip. But here’s the question almost no one asks: What about your relationship? When was the last time you paused and asked yourself, “What do I want to feel more of with my partner this year?” Because here’s the truth, connection doesn’t just happen. Just like your health, your finances, or your career, it takes intention. How to Set Relationship Goals...

How to Stay Close When Life (and the Holidays) Get Overwhelming You know what no one talks about? How the holidays can make you feel lonely even when you’re surrounded by people. Between gift lists, travel plans, family dinners, and late-night wrapping marathons, it’s easy for your relationship to slide into “project management”  mode. You’re both busy checking boxes, making sure everyone else is taken care of, and before you know it — your partner starts feeling like one more thing on your...